You Can Be the ‘Friend’ in the Friendly Visitor Program

Simsbury United Methodist thrives in part due to all the significant ways in which our mature, distinguished, experienced, wise, venerable, seasoned, and vintage members make a difference. Consider the folks who participate in our Adult Spiritual Growth classes, Days for Girls, Covenant to Care, Prayers and Squares, Prayer Shawl Knitters, Susanna Circle, and so many other successful programs made possible by the participation and volunteerism of these “venerable” folks.

Unfortunately, some SUM members, despite their many years of dedication, are no longer able to participate in these programs. Some have health issues; some can no longer drive or leave their homes without assistance, and some feel safer staying at home. That is where the Friendly Visitors Program comes in.

The SUM Friendly Visitors Program, led by Pastor Gene and Deacon Deb, is comprised of volunteers paired with those members, single or couples, who are now less active and appreciate a friendly visit now and again. The volunteer spends at least one hour per month with the recipient, offering companionship and support. The level of involvement is up to the volunteer and the recipient. Some volunteers visit them at their homes, some take them out to lunch, and others may visit a museum or engage in other social activities.

One of our volunteers took her ‘friend’ on a road trip so she could attend a family wedding when she realized the event was close to her father’s home, which she could visit simultaneously. Another invited her ‘friend’ to share a meal with her family.

A study led by the Center for Healthy Aging at Penn State found that the lack of positive social interactions in daily life could be a critical risk factor for declining cognitive function later in life. According to the study, “Older adults who are relatively more deprived in certain social interaction experiences could benefit the most from interventions that help to ‘boost’ their usual levels of social interactions in daily life.”

This mission is beneficial for everyone. The volunteers find it rewarding and enjoy their visits as much as the recipients. Volunteers meet with Pastor Gene and Deacon Deb monthly to confidentially share their reflections on their visits and request additional support if needed. Why not consider volunteering today? Contact Pastor Gene or Deacon Deb to join the volunteers. If you have questions about the program or want to suggest someone you think may benefit from this program, please make a confidential phone call to Pastor Gene or Deacon Deb.

Eileen Brogan